Hypnosis?

I’ve been talking more about hypnosis lately, and I’m getting responses along the lines of, “You make people cluck like chickens, and that’s therapy?” I mean, these days, I’ve heard of stranger things, so maybe that would work! But hypnotherapy has nothing to do with stage performance or making people do things they don’t want to do. (I promise you, that’s not even in my wheelhouse.) I see hypnosis as a natural extension of meditation and a powerful healing tool that has been used in traditional indigenous cultures since the beginning of human time. It’s all about taking an inward journey to a deeper state of relaxation similar to lucid dreaming, where the body, mind, and spirit become more open and receptive to change. 

Doing hypnosis in therapy is like listening to a deeper and more personalized guided meditation, all in the service of some change you would like to see or some aspect of self you’d like to explore. It feels like a very relaxing imaginary adventure where you can energetically sense the shift you’ve been waiting for. Oftentimes, people have visions and feel a pretty profound uplift in mood and energy. Or you can stay closer to the surface and just enjoy a more restful mind. You are always in control of the experience and can come out of it at any moment. It’s very safe and surprisingly effective. 

Beyond the power of the hypnosis experience, the real point is to learn to access that quiet intuitive space as often as you can. That’s called self-hypnosis. When we relax our minds and enter a more creative sphere, we find new solutions, and, even more importantly, we find peace in situations that are normally stressful. In the end, it’s that moment-to-moment okay-ness with what’s happening that makes just about everything a little easier. 

People often have questions about hypnosis, and every hypnotherapist works a little differently. In my practice, hypnosis is a tool for releasing old, stuck patterns and coming into greater balance, ease, and well-being. It’s a natural, gentle way to access a relaxed, open mind where the seeds of change can really take root. I sometimes incorporate hypnotherapy for help with:

  • Anxiety
  • Pregnancy symptoms and/or childbirth preparation
  • Parenting stress 
  • Moving on from an old relationship
  • A relentless inner critic 
  • Confidence-building
  • Career changes 
  • Stress-related health issues 
  • Facing the loss of a loved one 
  • General stress management 

I don’t use hypnosis with everyone I work with because it’s not what everyone needs, and I feel strongly about working with people in the way that feels best to them. But hypnosis is a great tool for those who want to try something new. If you’re curious or know someone you think might benefit, feel free to check out my counseling services. We’ll see what would be most helpful to you, and take it from there.

Wishing you much peace in this moment and in all the ones that come next,

Julia Aziz

Support for Change: Willpower and the Power of Being Willing

I love the forward momentum of this time of year. People are making changes and trying new things, taking action on goals that have often been incubating for quite a while. I look around and see motivation and willpower. The new direction can even feel easy at first. We may wonder why it took so long to make these changes that clearly needed to happen. It feels empowering, right? 

The trouble is that willpower is like kindling in a fire: it can flare up fast and bright, but it won’t sustain the flame for long on its own. After an initial period of success with our best intentions, some kind of obstacle shows up. It can be an external obstacle, like a family emergency that throws everything off. Or the inner rebel busts through and says, “Hey, why do you have to be so “good” anyway? You don’t really need to be doing all this. You should back off, give yourself a break.” Wherever it comes from, something eventually challenges the will for its power. 

This is why, come February, all those new gym memberships start getting less use, diets are quit, and people start backsliding with exes. So how do we get out of this push forward/pull back dynamic? The whole process of purposeful change longs to be more gentle and natural, rather than aggressive and eventually running out of fuel. 

It has to do with respecting cycles and receiving support. We learn to balance the masculine energy of focus and action with the feminine energy of receptivity and going with the flow. Instead of relying on willpower, we learn to be willing. We can have less control yet be more in sync, and therefore more effective. 

Being proactive about support is key. When we surround ourselves with people and practices that encourage and strengthen us, we will be in much better condition when the obstacles show up. Whether we can meet in person or online, you are welcome to join me at one of our community events. I’m a big fan of doing inner work while in community. I also work with people individually and in the women’s group program. You’re welcome to look around on here!

May you be supported in the changes that serve the highest good within you, and may you find grace in the process as it unfolds.

All my love,

Julia Aziz

Here’s a few self-healing tools you can use on your own, anywhere, anytime 🙂